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Dear Future Babies

Dear Future Babies

Writing letters to my future children to help deal with the struggles of infertility

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Author: Infertility Fred

31 year old struggling for 4 and a half years with infertility documenting my journey through letters to my future babies
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Guest Blog – Hannah

November 23, 2018November 21, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear future baby, I wanted to write this to you to let you know you were loved and wanted long before you even were born. When I was a child myself, I didn’t want children at all! My own childhood was filled with sadness which mired my view of being a mother. I was diagnosed… Continue reading Guest Blog – Hannah

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Guest Blog – Jenny

November 16, 2018November 16, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear Future Baby, My dearest baby, you, my love, have been a long time coming. The journey has been long and fraught, and so special and important to me, that I wanted to document this. I don’t know if you will be ever interested enough to read this – or if I will even want… Continue reading Guest Blog – Jenny

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Guest Blog – Morven

November 12, 2018November 12, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear Future Babies,   Daddy is waiting to take you to rugby games, teach you about kindness, strength and bravery. Mummy is waiting to hold you, nourish you, and teach you compassion, gratitude and respect.  Bru-dog is waiting for you, for walks, and couch cuddles, and for you to throw his ball. Your Great-Grandmother Jessie… Continue reading Guest Blog – Morven

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Guest Blog – Vikki

November 9, 2018November 1, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear Future Baby, For as long as I can remember I’ve wanted to be a mum. I remember spending hours looking through catalogues, making lists of things for the perfect nursery. I spent so much time daydreaming about the perfect family life; holding you in my arms, wondering who you would look like, smiling at… Continue reading Guest Blog – Vikki

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Guest Blog – Seanna

November 5, 2018November 4, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear future baby, Hi! I’m your mummy, I’ve waited so long to meet you and so has your daddy. We have spent such a long time wondering what you’ll be like. Will you be artistic like me, sculpting and sketching or will you be like your daddy? Video games and music and a mad photographic… Continue reading Guest Blog – Seanna

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Guest Blog – Rich

November 2, 2018November 5, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear Future Babies, How’s it going? So...I was unsure where to start with this, My usual response to this type of thing is “ask your mother”, be it things I don’t know, things I want her to make the call on, or things that will wind her up. (Have you asked about a Horse yet?)… Continue reading Guest Blog – Rich

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Guest Blog – Hannah

October 29, 2018October 26, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear Future Baby,   I truly appreciate this opportunity to try to share some of my feelings about this journey. I jumped at the chance and then panicked, thinking where do I even start?   My journey to become your mother started four and a half years ago. Your dad and I had got married… Continue reading Guest Blog – Hannah

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Guest Blog – Jade

October 26, 2018October 26, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear future baby, Several times I have sat down to try and write this letter and each time I end up putting my laptop away without writing a word. I am 37 weeks pregnant and as I sit here you are wriggling and squirming inside me. The movements are comforting but also make me feel… Continue reading Guest Blog – Jade

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Guest Blog – Claire

October 22, 2018October 26, 2018 Infertility Fred1 Comment

Dear future babies, I am writing this to you on a Saturday afternoon, your daddy is downstairs watching the football on tv, and I can hear his excited cheers as his team is clearly winning. One day I imagine you watching the football with him, in his team colours with our surname on the back… Continue reading Guest Blog – Claire

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29th August 2018

August 29, 2018August 29, 2018 Infertility FredLeave a comment

Dear future babies, Today would have been our first embryo's due date. It's hard to know how I feel, it's such a strange feeling knowing that if Noel had stuck around we would have either already met him or be patiently waiting for his (or her) imminent arrival. I thought I would feel a lot… Continue reading 29th August 2018

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